The Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

I strongly agree with what this is trying to say. People already have problems of their own so there is no reason why to get other people involved with your problems. Also do not talk bad about things because that could also lead to the person thinking that you say bad thing about them. Do not make people feel awkward in public when you are expressing your hate for the thing that you do not like. A good way to follow this rule would to always be thinking positive in front of someone. Never talk bad about things or things that you hate because people could care less. Always trying to comfort someone instead of trying to make someone comfort you.

Say and do something positive that will help the situation; it doesn't take any brains to complain.

Robert A. Cook

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people."
Being honest and sincere to a person is a good way to make friends easily. People like others to be honest and sincere when talking to them. A honest opinion is always better than a fake one. You should only say something if you mean it. Lying and faking your appreciation is no good

Honesty and loyalty are key. If two people can be honest with each other about everything, that's probably the biggest key to success.

                                                                       Taylor Lautner

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole world with them. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."

If you want to maintain a person happy and pleased, you must arouse an eager want in them. That means that you should pay attention to them and show them that at that time, they are your main focus. By doing so, the person will feel pleased and happy that you are such an attentive listener. But in order to do this you must remain cool, calm, and positive.

Final Reflection:

The three fundamental techniques are an effective way to improve your daily life and socialization with other people. This technique is very similar to Dale Carnegies Six ways to make people like you. It will help your relationship with other people and make yourself better as a person. What I will do to imply the three Fundamental Techniques will be to always refer to these methods when socializing with other people.